Some moments change everything
Rites of Passage Institute
We create them
Rites of Passage Institute creates life-changing experiences for young people, families, and schools for over 30 years.
This is what we do create achieve
Life-changing human experiences
that support people through one life stage to the next
Exhausted from the constant worry?
Lying awake at night replaying conversations?
Relationships feel strained, and you barely recognize yourself?
Programs that transform
Whether you are a parent searching for something real, a school looking for a genuine framework, or someone who wants to bring this work into the world, there is a place here for you.
Transforming
Schools
Helping schools create the conditions where young people genuinely thrive.
Leadership
Training
Learning the foundations of authentic leadership for personal growth
Parent Child
Camps
Deepen your bond with your child and learn how to support them
Public
Speaking
Inspire your community with new wisdom and ideas
Ancient method, modern transformation.
Traditional communities know something the modern world has forgotten; that life is characterised by evolution and change. Change brings challenge, and we’re not supposed to navigate challenge alone. The Rites of Passage Institute teaches tried and tested methods to help schools, organisations, and individuals transform and grow.
Ready to discover the positive power of Rites of Passage?
Meet our founder - Dr Rubinstein Oam
“I believe that connecting with each other on a deeper level and creating genuine human experiences is how we can create and grow healthy humans and communities. Facilitating transformation the way traditional communities have always done it is the way to make real, positive, lasting impact on your community, your family, and your life.”
Our therapists bring years of experience helping people just like you—people who are tired of carrying everything alone. We use proven, evidence-based methods tailored to what you actually need, not a one-size-fits-all approach.
Whether you prefer meeting in person or from the comfort of home, whether you’re seeking individual therapy or couples counseling, we’re here to meet you where you are.
Who We Are
We’re a team of licensed counseling psychologists united by one belief: therapy should feel like a safe conversation with someone who truly understands. Each therapist brings unique expertise, but we all share a commitment to meeting you exactly where you are—without judgment, without pressure.
A Judgement Free Space
This is where you don’t have to have it all together. Where messy is okay. Where your feelings are valid—all of them. You can be honest here. We’ll listen without judging, without fixing, without telling you how you “should” feel. Just understanding. Just support.
Our Approach to Therapy
We use proven methods like CBT, EMDR, and attachment theory—but we tailor everything to you. Your therapy isn’t one-size-fits-all. It’s built around your story, your pace, your needs. Some need tools. Some need space to process. Most need both. We’ll figure it out together.
Hear from our clients
Stories of transformation
Josh – manager
Milla – artist
Sophia – teacher
Ethan – software engineer
Julia – artist
Alicia – writer
Ben – entroprenour
Ready to take the first step?
Change begins with a single conversation. You don’t need to have all the answers right now.
Book a session
Free initial consultation
Book a free consultation. We’ll talk about what’s bringing you here and whether we’re a good fit. No pressure.
First session
In our first full session, we’ll dive deeper into your story. I’ll ask questions, listen, and together we’ll create a plan.
Ongoing sessions
We’ll meet regularly—weekly or biweekly. Each session is tailored to where you are in your journey.
Real progress
Over time, you’ll start to notice shifts in how you think and feel. Progress isn’t linear, but it’s real.
Frequently
Asked Questions
Stories of transformation
Q1: How do I know if therapy is right for me?
If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or like something needs to change—but you’re not sure how to move forward—that’s when therapy can help. You don’t need to have everything figured out. You just need to be open to the process.
Q2: How long is each session?
Each session is 50-60 minutes. We’ll decide together how often to meet—typically weekly or bi-weekly, depending on your needs and schedule.
Q3: How much does it cost?
Without insurance, therapy sessions typically range from $150 to $275, depending on the therapist you choose to work with.
We understand that cost can be a concern, and we don’t believe it should stand in the way of getting support. Everyone deserves access to quality mental health care. Through our advanced clinical training program, we’re able to offer therapy options when insurance or standard rates aren’t the right fit.
Q4: Do you offer online sessions?
Yes! I use a secure, HIPAA-compliant platform for all online sessions. Many clients find online therapy just as effective—and far more convenient.
Q5: What's your therapeutic approach?
I use an integrative approach, drawing from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), EMDR, and psychodynamic methods. But really, my approach is about meeting you where you are and tailoring our work to what you need most.
